You each answer privately on your own phone, then get one shared report on where you're in sync and where to grow.
Start here: tap what sounds like you two →.
One score. Every part of your relationship, side by side. A kind, neutral read on where you're in sync and what's worth a conversation.
“One of you feels your time together has quietly slipped away, while the other sees it as just a busy season. Neither of you is wrong. You both said you want more of it, which is the best possible starting point.”
Along with the shared report, you each get a short plan: two or three simple, specific ideas to try this month, based on both your answers. It's only about what you can do, never what they should change. And it's private, so yours is yours and theirs is theirs.
An invite, not an intervention. No app, nothing to prepare.
A single couples therapy session runs $100–250. This is a lighter first step, not a replacement.
A little time each. A lot more to talk about.